Confessions of a hifz mom – How the Journey Began

Confessions of a hifz mom – How the Journey Began

Confessions of a hifz mom – How the Journey Began | I still remember that day so clearly, when an assembly for the guardians was called by the Islamic school my kids went to. They had called us to inquire which guardians would be fascinated by enlisting their kids for Hifz.

My spouse and I looked at each other. Our girl was 6 years ancient at that time. We needed her to give it a shot and after that, we would take it from there – in case she was able to do it, we’d go for the long pull; on the off chance that she seems not or the weight was driving her to loathe the Quran, we would cease. So we marked up.

I did not need to tell my girl that we had marked up for the classes and she seems to see how it goes. That sounded as on the off chance that I was as of now telling her to stop. I moreover needed to communicate to her what an extraordinary thing it was for her to be doing Hifz – that she would be positioned among a select bunch of chosen people on the off chance that she did total memorization. What an uncommon day that would be!

So I sat my small young lady down and told her that Allah chooses as it were the leading of his individuals for uncommon assignments such as Hifz. I inquired about her on the off chance that she needed to be uncommon. With wide eyes, she said yes. I guess all young ladies, youthful or ancient, just like the word ‘special’! I told her to create a dua that Allah chooses for her for doing hifz, for memorizing His words.

I told her almost how with each word she would present, she might keep moving upwards into Jannah, where each level was more marvelous than the final; where indeed the foot most level was boundlessly more stupendous than anything we know in this world.

the Journey Began

The other day when I went to pick her up from school, she ran to me and said, “Mummy, there’s a list with all the names of the kids who were chosen for hifz. Did Allah select me?” The two of us strolled over to the list of the understudies whose guardians had marked up. She examined each title going down the list, appearing off her recently obtained perusing aptitudes. Two-thirds of the way down, she studied her title. I cannot disregard how she bounced with energy. My small young lady, eyes as wide as saucers, dreams as expansive as the universe, was excited that she was ‘chosen’ by Allah.

Indeed even though it was us who had marked her up, she wasn’t distant from the truth. Allah had in fact ‘chosen’ her to be among the huffaz. It was as if it were the final month that she wrapped up her Hifz Alhamdulillah. It took us longer than we anticipated since the entry of the most youthful part of our family, and the ensuing pass on my portion in keeping up with her lessons. But all’s well that closes well! We restarted the overlooked and by the beauty of Allah, my girl not as it was wrapped up in her hifz, but too motivated by her brothers to take on the challenge!

Hifz isn’t Fardh (required). But I cannot sufficiently confirm the astonishing benefits that the Quran brings into one’s life. My children can form associations, and reason, and get it over and past their age. They can form associations with the Quran and the message of Allah. When they tune in to addresses, they are way better able to form a sense of them. Not as it were that by the endowments of the Quran, openings, and ease comes in anything they do.

Total memorization may not be for your family. But certainly, direct your children to memorize parts of the Quran. And let them know they are extraordinary and they have been chosen by none other than Allah!

When my daughter completed her Hifz, it was not just the culmination of her efforts but a transformative milestone for our entire family. What began as an uncertain adventure became a journey of faith, patience, and resilience. I vividly remember the small steps that made up the monumental journey—each letter, word, and verse recited with focus, each mistake corrected with love, and every moment when frustration was met with encouragement.

The beauty of this journey wasn’t just in her memorization; it was in the lessons it imparted to us as a family. It taught us to prioritize time with the Quran, to trust Allah’s plans, and to recognize that every effort, no matter how small, is significant when done for His sake.

But the journey didn’t end with her finishing her memorization. In many ways, it was just the beginning.

Maintaining Hifz – A Lifelong Commitment

One of the things I hadn’t fully appreciated before embarking on this path was the reality that memorizing the Quran is not a one-time task. It is a lifelong relationship. Retaining the Quran requires consistent revision, structured schedules, and an unyielding commitment to keep it alive in the heart and mind.

We had to find a rhythm as a family to support her review sessions. There were times when she struggled, especially during exams or when other activities competed for her time. But I reminded her, and myself, of the honor of her task. This wasn’t just about memorization; it was about safeguarding the words of Allah.

We introduced fun ways to revise, like creating quizzes for her brothers to participate in, and even incorporating technology with Quran apps to make revision easier during travel or downtime.

The Ripple Effect

One of the most heartwarming parts of this journey has been witnessing the ripple effect it has had on our family and those around us. Her brothers, who initially saw Hifz as “her thing,” gradually became inspired to take their own steps in memorizing the Quran. My youngest son, though too little to start, often insists on sitting beside his sister during her revision sessions, pretending to memorize alongside her.

Even among our extended family, her accomplishment sparked discussions about the Quran, its significance, and how to nurture a love for it in the next generation. Friends reached out to ask how we managed the journey and sought advice on starting their own. It felt as though her dedication created a ripple of awareness and motivation beyond what we had imagined.

Lessons I’ve Learned as a Hifz Mom

Reflecting on this journey, there are a few key lessons that stand out:

1. Patience is Everything: There will be moments of doubt, frustration, and even exhaustion. But it’s in those moments that Allah’s help feels closest.
2. Celebrate Small Wins: Whether it’s memorizing a single line or completing a surah, each milestone is worth celebrating.
3. Lead by Example: Children mirror what they see. My own renewed relationship with the Quran inspired my daughter to persist when times were tough.
4. Trust Allah’s Timing: The journey may not unfold according to your timeline, but Allah’s plan is always perfect.
5. Make Dua Constantly: Never underestimate the power of dua. I often found myself praying for her strength, for ease in her memorization, and for her heart to remain connected to the Quran.

Advice for Parents Considering Hifz for Their Children

If you’re contemplating embarking on this journey with your child, remember that it is as much about the process as it is about the goal. Even if your child doesn’t complete the full memorization, the time they spend with the Quran is invaluable. Every letter recited is a blessing, every struggle a means of drawing closer to Allah.

Begin with sincere intentions, set realistic expectations, and seek to nurture a love for the Quran in your child’s heart. Encourage them, but don’t pressure them. Let their relationship with the Quran grow organically, with joy and sincerity.

Our Journey Forward

Today, my daughter’s Hifz journey has not only shaped her but has reshaped my perspective on parenting, faith, and the Quran. Watching her grow with the Quran has been one of the greatest joys of my life, and I know this bond will guide her through the ups and downs of life.

To other parents on this path: trust the process, trust your child, and most importantly, trust Allah. This journey is not without its challenges, but it is undoubtedly one of the most rewarding endeavors you’ll ever undertake.

As for my daughter, she often says she wants to inspire other children to take up Hifz, and perhaps one day teach it herself. My heart swells with gratitude every time I see her recite, every time her siblings join in, and every time I hear her talk about the Quran as her lifelong companion.

Alhamdulillah, for this journey, for its blessings, and for its lessons. May Allah make it easy for all those who embark on the path of Hifz and may He keep the Quran alive in our hearts and our homes. Ameen.